Anyway, so its been brought to my attention that Farrah decided to leave her daughter behind with her parents (who she doesn't really like anyway right?) in order for her to go to school and get her degree in Florida. Now, forgive me if I'm wrong but Iowa does have schools right? I mean, there are educated people from Iowa. I KNOW this for a fact because I tweet with some, text message with others, and read their blogs too. Iowa is a real place with real schools.
So what would cause a mother to leave her child behind in another state so she can go off and get her degree? I'll tell you what it was. Farrah is looking to regain her social life. Poor Sophia is taking a back seat to her mother's delusional dreams that maybe one day someone will want her. Think I'm lying? Why did Farrah get a boob job? Oh. yes, to get more jobs as a model to make more money to support Sophia. Those tears she cried while at that modeling job were 100% crocodile tears meant to move the hearts of the MTV viewers. Guess what Farrah? My heart is cold as ice and you didn't warm it up. You got the boob job so that YOU could feel better about YOURSELF. You got the boob job so you can get more attention from guys. It wasn't about booking jobs because let's be honest, most models out there aren't all that well endowed unless you want to work for Victoria's Not so Secret.
Now I'm about to say something that will probably get me flogged in the blogging community among single mothers or young mothers etc but since when do I care? If you don't want the responsibility of having a child then keep your freaking legs closed. Do not HAVE a child if you are not ready to put that kid first. Do NOT take a LOAN out to get boobs because you could be spending that money on making a better life for your child, you could have gotten a loan to move into a more stable home away from your whack job parents. Why have a kid if you just want to drop them off at the nearest babysitter?
When you become a parent you start putting yourself 2nd or 3rd or whatever. You are no longer first. I know that first hand. I'm a girlie girl. I love getting my hair done, I love getting all pretty. Well, when I got pregnant and had D for the first 10 months of her life I completely forgot what it was like to be human. I stopped going and getting my hair colored (and I had about 8 inches of roots to show for it), I stopped shopping in the designer clothes section for me and would rather get myself a pair of jeans from Wal-Mart so I can put that extra money into Burberry or Dior for Demi. I didn't mind either. I would give my life for my kid so who cares about what label is slapped across my ass? The point is that we all have to make sacrifices for our children when we have them. That is what separates the good parents from the shoddy ones.
I'm sorry but its NOT a sacrifice to leave your kid with your mom while you run away to sunny Florida under the guise of it being "for school". You WANT to leave your kid behind because you want to party, you want to be a normal 21 year old woman. I hate to tell you this Farrah but you aren't a woman and you aren't a mom. You were merely a uterus donor and your mom is about to take on the role of "mom" again.
I often hear jaded women use the expression, "Any man can be a father but it takes a real man to be a dad." well, it looks like the same can be said for Farrah, "Any woman can be a mother but it takes a real woman to be a mom," and I'm happy that Farrah's mom is willing to take on that title again because Farrah is just a mess.
I could not agree more.
ReplyDeleteAGREED. It's INSANE...
ReplyDeleteWowzers. That lady is trash. I was 19 when I had my first daughter (I'm 31 now and Avory is 12...And AWESOME), and it's true...You sacrifice! I know I did....I was working full time and going to school at night to make sure that my daughter had everything she needed. What didn't help me in my goals was her "father" who had completely changed after she was born (went from working 2 jobs, to not being able to hold a job at all and becoming an alcoholic). After a divorce that was 7 years in the making, I found someone who is as focused as I am and shares the same priorities and who supports me...Not financially, but in my own goals and dreams. And he's a GREAT father...To BOTH of our kids!
ReplyDeleteShe doesn't need to run away to Florida to get what she wants...She just needs to get her head out of her ass and put the focus where it needs to be.
And you're right...Keep your legs closed if you can't handle the responsibility....And that's coming from a woman who had her first child at 19. You're right on the money. Luckily I could handle it...And I did it with class and dignity and my daughter is a remarkable girl...But she WILL NOT head down the same path I did.
You need to be financially and mentally ready for a child and I am so sorry but you are not ready at 16 I do not give a shit how mature you think you are. She is going to Party and hang out. Boobs are for her not for her modeling jobs. I have stopped watching that show because they have al gone insane...Even Macy who was the most put together has begun to unravel. Great post!
ReplyDeleteI don't blame Farrah for wanting to be a young adult. What I do blame her for, is exactly all that you mentioned. She CHOSE to have unprotected sex! Period. And the consequence from that, obviously, her getting pregnant. I pretty much agree with all you said. I don't believe the boobs would help her get more modeling jobs. Who has seen any pics of her modeling? No one I suppose. She got a loan for boobs. And some how, all the sudden, she can afford braces?!? She didn't even NEED braces. I think the loan was fake. We all know these teen mom bitches make money from the show. And yeah, colleges exist everywhere. You don't have to travel over a thousand miles away to attend one. Her first priority should be her daughter. Her mother tries her best to manipulate Farrah. And well, it worked.
ReplyDeleteI never understood why Farrah visited Cali and Florida for schools. She's so naive. They never show her with any friends.
-Brandie
All I know of Teen Mom is what I see on "Soup" or read on Twitter. Thanks for confirming my decision to not waste my time on that show. Farrah sounds like she needs to grow up. Farrah's parents need to stop being doormats. The poor child is the one who will suffer though.
ReplyDeleteagree! I can't beleive that girl just gave her baby to her mom and dad. at least she wont grow up into a rude sarcastic twat like her mother is. hopefully.
ReplyDeletethese girls have no idea what they are doing.
how about catelynn calls herself a mom, no sweetheart, you are a birthmother, you are not a mom, you lost the right to call yourself a mom when you signed over your daughter. though you do sport a mom hair do...
In love with this post! I haven't seen Teen Mom in forever and had no idea what was going on! I can't believe she left her with her mother (who she wasn't too fond of). And I'm a single mother and totally not even remotely offended by your comments. Children come first, you are dead last now... wake up parents! If she wanted to continue to be a child, she should have put her sweet little girl up for adoption.
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