Sunday, October 9, 2011

Totally Random Thoughts

I have a bunch of random thoughts flying through my head so I figured that maybe my blog was the best place to get them out.

So let's start shall we? Oh, you'll have to forgive me if this list is messed up or makes no sense. I am watching the finale of The Real Housewives of New Jersey.

1. I'm really excited for BlogHer12. Dana and I are going to be rooming together and we were just texting trying to figure out what to do in the down time (if there is any) and who is on our list of "must meets". (Maybe one day we'll share that list but for now its just a surprise!) We need to figure out who to see, what sessions to be at, and hope we get invited to some parties. If we don't make the party list we won't be too sad. I mean, HELLO, we are in New York!

2. Last night I was playing Words With Friends and the person I was playing against told me that she actually follows me on Twitter and reads my blog. That in itself is not unusual, what is unusual is that they are NOT the type of person that I thought reads my blog. My blog doesn't usually appeal to the uber (do people still use that word?) conservative people, unless of course they read it to make fun of me or teach their children what NOT to become. I was really shocked. I told her that and she told me that while she was very conservative she liked the way I said what I felt. It actually made me happy to know that my blog can appeal to a variety of people...and I think that is kind of the point of blogs. Right?

3. Speaking of my blog I find it hilarious that the number one search term that lands people here from google is the phrase "letter to my exboyfriend". This is funny to me because that blog post (part of the letter challenge) doesn't actually have a lot of comments. It's one of the most read posts but least commented on. I wonder if people don't think its okay to talk about their exes on their blogs once they are in a new relationship or married. I don't believe that to be the case at all. My past relationships have shaped the person I am today, they helped me learn something about myself in relationships and I feel no need to hide that.

4. And since we are on the subject of ex boyfriends...My sister and I are doing two "parties". I am hosting a PartyLite party at my house and she will be doing a gold party. Basically you sell any old gold jewelry you have that you don't wear or you know, that earring that is missing its partner or that necklace your ex gave you? It's great. Sell your gold and use the cash to buy candles. Part 3 of that is "go to the casino". Anyway, I digress, so my ex boyfriend gave me a necklace and pendant. It had the island he was from as well as his initials on the back. His grandmother had given it to him. After we broke up I tried like 4 times to give it back to him and it never worked out for us. So now I am selling it. Well, I will give him until Sunday Oct 16th at 1:59pm to pick it up. If he doesn't get it by then I'll be selling it. Sorry buddy.

5. You know what has always confused me? When pro-breastfeeding parents keep on talking about the bonding benefit of breastfeeding. A blog post by Fearless Formula Feeder made me remember how much that expression irked me. I mean, what about the father? Does the father not get to bond with his kid? Does bonding not count unless a part of you is in a part of them? Or do father's only get to bond with their children after the age of 2 (or however long you decide to breastfeed?) Now, I'm not one to say anything bad about breastfeeding, I believe to each their own just feed your kid...but its really not fair to say that breastfeeding leaves you bonded better. My child was never breastfeed and I still understand her own special language and what each cry means (98% of the time). What makes people think that you understand your kid more if you breastfed? I dunno man, that just makes no sense to me!

So those are my random thoughts of the week...what are yours?

4 comments:

  1. 1 - BlogHer sounds like a fun time.

    2 - This blog isn't political, it's more real than that. It's a great read because it's not easy to categorize. It's not a mommy blog, it's not political. It's just interesting.

    3 - As for the exes - I just don't like to even think about them. You know, if you can't say something nice...

    4 - That sounds like fun. I prefer Scentsy to Party Lite, but that's because my totally cool SIL sells them. Check them out.

    5 - I get what you're saying. I think it's a bit harder for dads to bond, but that's because moms, especially in the early months, tend to do more. I don't think it has any bearing on long-term relationships. Yes, breastfeeding encourages a certain closeness, but non-breastfed kids have just as good of a relationship. I am all for BFing, but bonding isn't the main reason why.

    Just my thoughts on your random thoughts.

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  2. A blog is a great place to post random thoughts. :) My first visit but I will return. I follow u on twitter. (April_momof3)

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  3. Feeding a baby isn't the only way a father can bond with his child and actually your argument regarding breastfeeding/bonding/fathers is a frequently used one. It's not only a flawed argument but is a detrimental thought to convey to anyone who may consider breastfeeding. (read- boobie trap) The benefits of breastfeeding to baby and mother are so great & vast that worrying a father wouldn't bond is harmful. An involved father can bond in many other ways that do not involve a bottle.

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